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About Romewise, and me

This page is about me, and about Romewise. Hi, I'm Elyssa Bernard, the creator and publisher of the Romewise web site. 

I thought you might like to know how this web guide came about, and why I think I know what I'm talking about!

About Romewise - A little history about me

I come from Gainesville, Florida, where my dad taught cultural anthropology at the University of Florida until his recent retirement. My parents still live there and it's where I call home. When I go back to the states that is.

Rome is also home. I've lived here since October 2001, when my Roman husband and I moved here from Boston, where we were living at the time.

How did I wind up marrying a Roman? 

While living in Boston, a friend and I took a fateful trip to Europe one summer, to "visit France and Italy." We thought we'd fly out of Rome, as our last stop. Just to, you know, see the Colosseum and the Vatican at the end of the trip (now, I am sad when I hear people refer to coming to Rome this way, i.e. in a hurry!)

By chance we stayed in a hotel near the Termini station, because it was relatively inexpensive, they took credit cards, and they had a vacancy in September, which we had not realized back then was very peak season.

The man who would become my husband, Alessandro, was not supposed to work that night, but they called him in by chance, and that is who checked us in. Love at first sight for us both.

Fabulous Florentine blogger Georgette Jupe of the popular blog Girl in Florence wrote a series about Getting Married in Italy.

She featured my story there, so if you'd like to read more, check it out!

There was a lot of back and forth travel before we married.

Then we lived together in Boston for a while.

Eventually, we decided to move back to Rome for family reasons...and "open a B&B." Alessandro said, "it's easy, you just rent an apartment, then rent out the rooms." He'd seen it done where he'd worked before.

Well it was not easy.

And we moved here weeks after 9/11, which was dismal and felt like a hopeless time.

But we searched and searched and finally found an apartment to turn into our first little 3-room B&B. We eventually wound up with a 20-room "boutique" B&B in Rome.

About our (ex) hotel and why we loved what we did

(Yes this page is about Romewise, but bear with me . . . the B&B is what led to this!)

From the very beginning, when we only had 3 rooms, I used to sit with all our guests, and talk to them about what they were going to do that day.

I'd say, wait a minute, you shouldn't do that, or you should try this restaurant, or you should consider going there, etc.

I did it because I cared, and because, my first time visiting Rome, I did not enjoy it very much at all. And by the time we opened our B&B, I had fallen in love with the city, its hidden streets, its wonderful food, history and art, and its beauty. So I wanted to make sure nobody made the mistakes I made, in disliking the city too soon, not getting to know it, and not getting to love it.

As we grew, we always kept this philosophy, hiring staff who were passionate about Rome, and about people and talking to them.

Over the years, we created hundreds of email templates in answer to the myriad questions we'd get from our guests about their stay in Rome.

In all the time we ran our hand-holding, customer-service oriented boutique B&B, I collected hundreds of questions (and answers) that I know visitors have when they are coming to Rome, especially for the first time.

I loved to use our guests' needs as an excuse to eat and drink my way around Rome (for "research").

me at il falchetto restaurant in romeHere, I am having a delicious plate of spaghetti with mussels and pecorino at il Falchetto.

Between all my eating in Rome, taking cooking classes in Rome, having a Roman husband to coach me in the ins and outs of all the food he grew up with, and knowing several chefs and food professionals in Rome, I have become very well-versed in Rome cuisine and am happy to tell anyone (and everyone) about it if they are willing to listen to me!

me taking italian cooking classes in romeI love taking cooking classes (in Italian and with Italian chefs.) It's very hands on, so I not only know how to love eating Italian food, but making it too!

About Romewise and why I wrote and write this guide

When we create pages for this website, we pour hours of research, planning, information and photograph curation, and writing into it.

It usually takes about 2-4 weeks to write one page.

This is why it is NOT ok to plagiarize this site. Some have done so, with the argument that "this information is freely available on the internet". It may be, but the way in which we research, curate, and then organize our thoughts, and then write them out in a presentable way takes a huge amount of work.

Please do not plagiarize this site.

I soon realized the FAQ page on our B&B web site would not be enough, but did not want to weigh down the hotel's website with so much tourist information. And, I also knew we could not answer all the people who wanted our help but did not stay at the hotel.

So I created this web site as a guide for all of them; all of you.

This guide is for everyone coming to Rome who wants to know not just the basic stuff but all the interesting and even esoteric things in between. 

It's taken me, and is taking me, years to write it and construct it, and I am still doing this full time!

This is because I spent a lot of time running our hotel business with my husband.

Now I'm working on Romewise full time (Want to know how? Visit this page).

But Romewise is a labor of love and I hope it shows. I hope you will find that this website is helpful in planning your trip to Rome.

I was passionate about Romewise when I began it in 2009 and am even more so today!

About Romewise - Why I know what I'm talking about

If you're wondering about Romewise, and how I know what I am talking about, here's just some of what's behind all the info you find on this site:

I am passionate about living in Rome. I also get the most out of it: I walk around a lot, I eat (and drink), A LOT, and I do as much cultural stuff as I can. I have visited and toured several times over most of the important, and many lesser-known, sites in Rome. I take tours (in Italian or English) of these sites as often as I can.  

Elyssa in front of Bernini fountain at the VaticanIn front of one of my favorite Bernini fountains in Rome, even if it's actually at the Vatican (not part of Rome!)

I have a BA in Anthropology from the University of Florida. Since moving here, I've also taken several online courses including Roman Architecture (Yale University), Roman Art and Archeology (University of Arizona), Arch of Titus: Rome and the Menorah (Yeshiva University) - all through Coursera; and Rome - A virtual Tour of the Ancient City (Reading University) through Futurelearn;  and the History of Rome, a podcast.

Here is a list of places Romewise/I have appeared in print and online:

Besides living a Roman life with my husband (who was born and raised here and who is a Lazio fan), I count among my friends Roman art historians, archeologists, tour guides, chefs, authors, and many other fascinating people who've given me a real vision of Roman life like nothing I could have discovered on my own.

Because of them, I have been able to visit places usually off limits to visitors, taste and learn to make authentic Roman foods, read amazing books I might otherwise not have known about, and just, well, enjoy Rome at its best.

me at the oppio caffe near the coliseum in rome

I hope you enjoyed reading a bit about Romewise. I want the site to be helpful but I also want you to know there is a real person behind this, someone who cares that you have a great time in Rome!

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